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Elementary, Parenting, Preschool, Theology, Uncategorized

Reading with my kids

March 5, 2021 by Hannah Lugibihl No Comments

Reading books with my kids is one of my favorite things to do! We read books strictly just for fun and a good story, but we also read books to learn something. I have found that reading a story versus just spouting out information and facts is so much more effective in keeping kids engaged and helping them comprehend and relate to what you’re telling them about. That’s probably part of why Jesus used parables to teach so often, and didn’t just lay out facts for people. It causes you to put yourself in the shoes of the person in the story and encourages you to imagine, question, and think for yourself.

I wanted to share a few of our favorite books that are on rotation at our house. These are all books we have read that help my kids (and me!)  learn more about God and the Bible and grow in our relationship with Him.

We love all of these kids’ Bibles. They all re-tell stories in a beautiful way for kids to understand. 

Jesus Storybook Bible

The Gospel Story Bible

Tiny Truths: Wonder & Wisdom (Psalms & Proverbs)

These are a few of the devotional style books we have really enjoyed:

Indescribable 

How Great is Our God

The Ology

Here are a few books we love to read. Some are re-telling of Bible stories and some are simply beautiful stories that point us to God.

All of the books from “Tales That Tell the Truth” collection. We have these three, but would love to own all of them!

The Garden, The Curtain, and The Cross

The One O’clock Miracle

The Friend Who Forgives

God Gave Us ______ series.

God Gave Us Easter would be a great Easter basket gift. We love the Christmas one as well! 

The Big God Story 

A beautiful story of some of the most well known Bible figures! It concludes with saying that we, too, are a part of God’s story! One of my absolute favorites.

Psalm Twenty-Three

This book is beautifully illustrated and shares the words of Psalm 23 as it applies to a child’s journey through their day

What Am I Feeling?

This book helps teach kids (and me, ha!) how to name our feelings and ask God to help us with them.

It’s Will Be Okay: Trusting God Through Fear and Change

I love this precious story about a seed and a fox’s friendship. It’s a story about how change and circumstances can be hard or scary, but we have a God who loves us and knows what is best for us. We read this one a lot!

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Elementary, Parenting, Preschool, Preteen, Teen, Uncategorized

A letter to my new homeschool friends…

March 14, 2020 by Ellen Davis 1 Comment

To all my new homeschooling friends, WELCOME!  Take a deep breath, it’s going to be okay.  First and foremost, remember God specifically designed your children for you.  You know them better than anyone else.  You have been loving, caring, and providing for your child since birth. 

I’ve been homeschooling for about 10 years and I know this journey well and you are not alone.  Reach out to your homeschooling friends and ask for advice and support.  I promise you they will come to your rescue because even though we have chosen to homeschool we know we can’t do it without a community of our peers by our side.  We don’t have all the answers, but we can encourage and pray with you.   

Here are a few of my tips to help you

–       Lean on God each day to use the patience and peace He has given you to lead your children well

–       Laugh.  A LOT.

–       Keep perspective and look at what you have accomplished over the week not just that day

–       You don’t need desks, do school at the kitchen table, outside, on the couch, upside down.

–       Play outside!

–       Establish a basic routine not a minute by minute routine (ex. wake up time, breakfast, school, lunch, unfinished school)

–       Your kids can entertain themselves – have books, art supplies, footballs, and toys readily available for their use

–       Help your child with a routine and staying on track but ultimately they need to be responsible for their schoolwork.

–       Utilize your new school uniform, pajamas!

–       Break your routine sometimes BECAUSE YOU CAN- watch a movie, go out for ice cream, walk around the block – enjoy this new freedom.

You will find homeschooling is as much a lifestyle choice as an educational model. Use this new time together to deepen your relationship with your children.  Even on the days I want to put my kids on the bus, I remember that God has gifted me this opportunity to pour truth and love into their developing hearts.  At this end of this disruption, your biggest success will be pointing them to Jesus.

Ellen and her family.
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Partnering with Parents

January 28, 2020 by Emily Soule No Comments
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Jesus is Joy – Advent Week 3

December 15, 2019 by Emily Soule No Comments

Jesus is the Joy of the world. The Angel said to the shepherds in the field that night “I bring you Good News of Great Joy!” Jesus is our great joy!
May this week before Christmas be one where we see the Joy that is Jesus!

Also make sure and check out the Advent idea “You’ve been Tinsled!”

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When to seek counseling

October 14, 2019 by Kyndal Jacoby No Comments

I oftentimes find myself looking at my boys, relishing in the joys and freedom that being a child brings, and think to myself “oh to be them.” They are living the dream y’all; and for that I am thankful. I also find myself just as often looking at them and wondering what the years ahead will bring. What hurts, lies, illnesses, insecurities, poor choices, and hard circumstances lie ahead? I think it is the nature of what I do that takes my mind there frequently. As I sit across from individuals young and old that are struggling, I often ask the Lord what my own children and family will face. One of the hardest things as a parent is to see your child struggling and not know what the heck is going on or what to do. 

As much as we desire for our kids to remain carefree and innocent, we all know the reality of our world is much different. Whether it is stress, grief, anxiety, negative self-thinking, bullying, or something organic; our children face it too. The same circumstantial, emotional, and mental health concerns that affect adults can also affect our children. The good news is that we have the hope of the Lord AND live in a day and time where help is available and encouraged. So how do you know when to seek help for your child or family?  Children as young as 4 can benefit from therapy. Here are some pointers on when to seek counsel from a professional:

  1. Issues beyond the home: when a child is struggling with behavior or emotional issues it typically presents itself across the board in multiple settings. 
  2. Isolation: beginning to isolate from friends and/or family members (retreating to the bedroom more often than not) can oftentimes be evidence of a bigger concern. 
  3. Drastic changes in normal daily activities: changes in eating, sleeping, and personal motivation. This may occur gradually, but you can tell it is different and more persistent than a growth spurt. In older children, this may include changes in personality, hygiene, and abnormal behaviors. You also want to take note of frequent nightmares, difficulty falling asleep and difficulty staying asleep. Something else to take note of is regression in usual behavior and mastered skills. Changes in behavior that cause you to think twice and/or alter the day for the child or family usually mean something.
  4. Excessive fear, worry, or sadness: it is completely normal for kids to have worries and sadness, and as they mature these will become more and more ‘real life’ things. If it begins to impact their day more often than not, it is time to reach out for help. 
  5. Self-harm or any self-destructive behaviors: if you find out your child has cut or intentionally harmed themselves in any way (even if it is only once), it is imperative to get help. Self-harm is a very dangerous behavior that if untreated can lead to more serious concerns. If your child expresses any thoughts of suicide, immediately contact your pediatrician, trusted therapist, or bring them to the nearest ER. 
  6. Desire or attempts to truly harm someone else or an animal.
  7. Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or thinking clearly.
  8. Preoccupation with appearance: this may or may not be combined with restricting eating, excessive exercising, or binging and purging. 
  9. Relationship concerns: tension or conflict between parent/child, child/sibling, or child/friend that is not resolving.
  10. Proactive versus reactive: counseling is always a great option to give your child an outlet to connect with and trust someone who can help teach and reinforce skills and processes that they may have a hard time receiving from a parent. I frequently work with kids and teenagers that desire someone removed from the situation to help work through things. It is always the hope of the therapist to help foster, enhance, and build the parent/child relationship, not be a replacement of it. 

The fact is that not every person that worries has an anxiety disorder, not every bout of sadness leads to clinical depression, or every circumstance always lends to professional help. Kids experience emotional shifts and struggles. That’s part of being human. Understanding when the struggle shifts from average childhood/adolescent behavior that could potentially benefit from having a therapist involved to most certainly requiring professional intervention is imperative. Or knowing when your child might respond better to a neutral third party when learning to navigate hard things. 

When we read articles like this, we can sometimes walk away either thinking “no, not my child,” “I must watch every step they make to see if my child needs…,” or “I HAVE MISSED something big [insert fear]!” Trust your instincts and discernment, but also hear the feedback of those around you and your child. You and those close around you know your child best. Use the above-mentioned things as a starting point to begin thinking about your family’s situation and season. If you ever have the thought that someone near and dear to you could benefit from some additional guidance or professional help, I encourage you to be bold and speak with someone. I know this topic can feel discouraging and daunting to say the least. We and our kids, can and will face a lot of hard things, BUT we serve an incredible God that has gifted fellow believers with the skills and abilities to walk alongside us and our families. 

Note: This article does not take the place of consulting with a mental health practitioner. If you have concerns about the mental health of your child, seek help immediately.

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Advent Week 3 – Let’s Define Joy

December 16, 2018 by Emily Soule No Comments

I always have high expectations for Christmas. I blame that on Hallmark movies. Some years Christmas has been wonderful and some years Christmas has been nowhere near a Hallmark movie! I can only imagine how that first Christmas must have felt for Mary and Joseph. What a rollercoaster of emotions: giving birth to the Savior of the world in a barn, with no midwife, with your new husband, probably still trying to grasp this whole “virgin” thing,  and then these random shepherds show up and the bright star! Whew! It gives me anxiety just thinking about it all. I can only imagine their emotions were all over the place.

Some friends of mine, Doug and Janet Newberry (janetnewberry.com), define joy this way, “It’s good to be me here with you”. I love this definition. Joy is not defined by the circumstances or even by the feelings I may have. Joy is a state of being! Jesus is Joy! And He has come and is here with (and IN) me! No matter what our circumstances are this week before Christmas, we can experience joy because we already have Him! Jesus is JOY! So I can be me, which is joyous (whether I feel that way or not) and I can enjoy you no matter the situation.
In this 3rd week of Advent, with our focus on Joy, we will look at what the shepherds did as soon as they heard the angels say, “We bring you good news of great joy!” (Luke 2:1-20). May this week be one where you experience the Joy that is Jesus and respond as the shepherds did.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

13 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,

14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.

 Luke 2:8-20

Advent: Week 3

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